“I used to think I was the strangest person in the world but then I thought there are so many people in the world, there must be someone just like me who feels bizarre and flawed in the same ways I do. I would imagine that she must be out there thinking of me too. Well, I hope that if you are out there and read this and know that, yes, it’s true I’m here, and I’m just as strange as you.” Frida Kahol
Frida’s quote explains everything perfectly — at least to all of us who grew up thinking we were strange.
And if the women I know best are examples, Frida’s feeling about being strange is pretty much a universal thing. It’s too bad that too many of us let decades go by before we appreciate our own special strangeness.
We’re too caught up in what others expect, or what other people will think if we do something strange, like hugging a tree or riding roller coasters when we’re 70. Yes, I do both.
I also think men have problems accepting their strangeness. After all “only sissies cry” and “real men don’t eat quiche.”
Why in the dookie have we allowed others to have so much power over us?
Frida used her strangeness to produce mind-bending art. .
Dr. Seuss, whose characters you must admit are a bit strange, embraced it with his unconventional stories and verse. He also understood how difficult it was for the rest of us to accept being different. Why else would he have wrote:
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind … Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”
I say we follow Dr. Seuss’ advice.
Bean’s Pat: http://morezennow.wordpress.com This is the blog on which I found Frida’s quote. It’s a blog that makes me think, and I love it when someone does that to me.