“Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor.” – Anne Lamott
Who Gives the Best Advice?
My favorite book about writing is Anne Lamott’s “Bird by Bird,” which by the way is also a good book for how to live your life.
In it, Anne quotes E.L. Doctorow, who once said that “Writing a novel is like driving a car at night. You can see only as far as your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way.”
She thought it was right up there with the best advice on writing she had ever heard. So do I.
I also identify with this quote by Anne:” “Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whether you’re going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over people and circumstance, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it, and find out the truth about who you are.”
As I said, “Bird by Bird,” is about living as much as writing.
As for her advice that perfectionism isn’t a good thing, I find myself fighting this battle each time I’m about half way through a writing project, and start thinking my writing is not good enough.
Then I find it’s time to take advice from a Nike slogan: “Just do it.
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